Carrots, Eggs, or Coffee Beans

A young woman went to her mother and told her, “Life is hard.  I don’t know how I’m going t make it.  I want to give up.  I’m tired of fighting and struggling.” Her mother took her to the kitchen.  She filled three pots with water and placed each on a high fire.  Soon the water came to a boil.  In the first she placed carrots; in the second she placed eggs, and in the last she placed ground coffee beans.  She let them sit and boil without saying a word. In about twenty minutes she turned off the burners.  Read More

Hope or Despair?

The following words passed from friend to friend over the years.  Stephanie, friend of our daughter, Rene’, shared these words with her during her recovery after surgery for stage III ovarian cancer in 2014, and they are still relevant today.  Originally Joan Chittister  penned these words on hope or despair in  “The Psalms: Meditations for every Day of the Year.” Cut from the Same Cloth ~ “Hope and despair are not opposites.  They are cut from the very same cloth; made from the very same material; shaped from the very same circumstances.  Most of all, every life finds itself forced Read More

What do We Convey by What We Say?

What do we convey by what we say or don’t say or by our actions?  What kind of witness are we?  What is a witness anyway? According to Random House College Dictionary, witness is: 1) to see or know by personal presence and perception; 2) to be present at an occurrence as a formal witness, spectator, bystander; 3) to bear witness to, testify to, give or afford evidence of. The gospel writer John says of Jesus, “What Jesus has seen and heard, of that He bears witness, and no man receives His witness.  He who has received His witness has Read More